A Legacy of Faith: The Story of Sergio and Margarita

Sergio and Margarita are my in-laws. They are easy to love and be with; both are down-to-earth, hardworking, and fully devoted to God and family. Sergio works as a blacksmith during the week and serves as a pastor on weekends. As a couple, they have begun several churches and served the poor with true intent.

Their story is truly special. After getting married, they struggled with infertility and prayed for years until, finally, it happened. First came one, then two (Nancy, my wife), and then three girls. They decided to try for a boy, but guess what? Another girl arrived. In their continued search for a son, they went for another round, and finally, the boy came—fifth in line.

You would think they might stop there, but they decided to pray for one more boy. That is when twin sisters said, "Hello, we are here!" Almost like Jacob in his old age, they reached out for "one more" until the seventh girl appeared. All are healthy children who have blessed their parents since the day they arrived. All this to say: God holds our family in His hands. We are blessed and should give thanks for every child He adds to our quiver.

Over the years and to this day, Sergio and Margarita have started several churches and worked with children, usually in very poor neighborhoods. Their hearts beat for those without Christ, the neglected, and those who have no voice.

I have been blessed with two sets of in-laws who have both contributed to my growth and understanding of family. Sergio and Margarita continue to serve in a small Ukrainian community of faith, preaching on Sundays and meeting for prayer on Wednesday evenings, just like in the early days. As third-generation immigrants who have made Paraguay their home, they have embraced the culture and the people, leaving a legacy of love and faith.

I often wish I knew some Ukrainian. I love hearing them sing with such nostalgia from their hymnals, even if the text looks like scribbles to me. I am blessed to have them praying for my family and to be connected with my wife’s siblings.

Families are the foundation of our society, and we must work on these relationships to the best of our ability. Scripture asks: What if we gain the world but lose our soul? I would add: What if we gain reputation, money, and status, but lose our families in the process? I will stop here, as that is a topic for another email.

Enjoy your family

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