We will miss you Nilah

Nilah was born Nov 28^th, 1933, during years of scarcity when the world was suffering due to the economic collapse of the great depression. Nilah was the first daughter to David and Lilian Meier. The Meier couple met in Anderson College during their studies (1925-1928). After graduating they minister in Illinoi, Montana, later to Canada, then Brazil and Argentina.

From a very young age, Nila was surrounded in missionary living. She became fluent in five languages. She was a global citizen, always ready to connect the love of God with others. She would appreciate and value simple things, and she always saw the best in others.

A few weeks ago, on Friday, Aug 30^th, Nilah went to her heavenly home, full of years and a life well lived. She leaves a legacy of service and generosity for the world.

My mother’s name is Tabitah, Nilas youngest sister. During my childhood, Nilah would write me regularly, always remembering my birthday. When it came time to go to college, Nilah was the first one to say, Norberto, I want to help you in anything you might need to make your college dream come true.

And that’s what she did during the years of my schooling at Anderson University. Nilah supported me emotionally during the rocky seasons of college life, and financially to pay the bills for my education. Above all else she taught me about generosity thru her example. Having a cup of coffee with Nilah was an unforgettable experience. She would ask questions and would always shift the conversation towards you. Very few times did I hear Nilah complain or criticize others. She had decided that life is to be enjoyed and live in the moment.

For three decades Nilah taught Spanish at Anderson University. Taking a class with Mrs Nilah was a door into new cultures and insightfull experiences. I don’t think anybody ever flunked Spanish with Sra. Nilah. It wasn’t about the grade with Nila, it was about an experience.

Her contribution to my family and the church at large will greatly be missed.

Thanks tia Nila.

Norberto

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